Because I’m worth it

My wife has two close female friends in which she hangs out with periodically. They’re nice, decent people and fun to spend time with, however, the one thing which always has me shaking my head about them is the level at which Feminism has altered their lives.

While these women are hardly hard-line feminists, they do indeed subscribe to the entitlement complex, which so permeates Western Culture, and they don’t even realize how it’s affecting their lives negatively. One friend met a decent dude at the bar I work at p/t. This guy is well educated, very well mannered and ambitious. I thought this was good as successful black men like him and the group he hangs out with are in very short supply.

Well, he had gone over to her place one night, with a bottle of wine and some dinner for her. He stayed the night, and then he left. While he has gone back a few times here and there, I can promise you there is no dating going on there any longer. I asked my wife what happened but I already had an idea of what went down. She is a single mother with two adolescent children, and is now in her early 40’s. Yes she has her own career, but let’s just say that she looks like a 40-year-old single mother, okay? This man is in his late 20’s, well brought up as I had said before and very well off. I’ve been to her place in the past and let’s just say that it could use a little ‘sprucing up’ and leave it at that.

Frankly I’m surprised that he even went to her place at all.

While us guys aren’t going to hold it against a woman if her house isn’t right out of Martha Stewart Living, (never read the magazine myself), we do want to see at least that they give a sh!t about where they live. My wife asked me what was different with her because when we first met, she lived in a complex similar to her friend. Why did I ever come back?

I did have my misgivings pulling into my wife’s complex the first time, but I stepped into her townhouse, and it was clean and relatively well appointed. She had even painted it herself; even when she didn’t have to in order to make it more hospitable. It was clear that while she lived in a rough neighborhood, she didn’t plan on staying there more than she had to and I told my wife just that.

You walk into her friend’s place, and you can tell she doesn’t give a rip.

Plainly, the guys she meets see this right away and realize one thing; that they can do better.

These guys don’t stick around long, and just after my wife told me about her latest failure so to speak, I noticed this dude with another, younger, and hotter woman the following week at the bar.

Don’t hate the player, hate the game.

As for my wife’s other friend, while she lives in a small and modest apartment, which is clean and well appointed, she has some entitlement issues of her own. You see, she believes in soul mates and has very strict and stringent rules on what she wants in a man. Well, let me put the situation to you like this; I’m no Romeo, but most women could do much worse than me. I can tell you this in all honesty, that I wouldn’t be good enough for my wife’s friend, however…

 If I where single, I wouldn’t even look at this woman twice.

Same reason as before, I could simply do better than her. My wife feels so bad for her as when they go out clubbing, she had her eyes set on the best looking guy out there while everyone knows that she is way out of her league. However, she believes that she is entitled to a man like this, and wonders why more men aren’t breaking her door down.

Why? So just because she is a woman any man is lucky to have her? Don’t these women understand even at the very least that there are OTHER women out there that a man can be lucky with?

I hear my wife’s first friend repeat fairly often, “Where’s my Prince Charming, where is he?” yet hasn’t the foggiest clue why she hasn’t met him yet. Heck, drop by any dating website and you will see the long lists of what woman want in men, but not much of what they will offer in exchange.

This has been what’s forgotten in this sea of entitlement. A relationship is an exchange, not just a continuation of the “all about me show”.  Many women literally think they are the cat’s meow, and haven’t the foggiest clue that they are nowhere near as good a catch as they would like to think. Due to the constant bombardment of womyn’s media however, they have reason to believe the hype, even if it’s based on nothing but hot air.

Heck, it doesn’t matter that I look like a manatee, or that my house resembles a New York Ghetto, I’m a woman, you’re LUCKY to have me in your life at all. NOW GET OUT THERE AND GET ME SOME MONEY TO SPEND DAMMIT!!

Right, and as a result, she’s still single and may get a ride once in a while, but not much more than that.

Sad really, because she’s not a bad person, but since she has a head full of the wrong information, the chances of her getting what she wants is very low, and getting lower every year. As for my wife’s second friend, she had the same lament about her Mr. Right and she wants to have kids in the worst way. She is looking to get married so she can live the North American Woman’s dream of having a family, however, she is already well past 35 and in all honesty, most doctors would say that her window is already closed.

We all know that both of these ladies aren’t the only ones in this predicament. While feminism is doing a number on men in the West, their faulty conclusions and outright fabrications are also hurting women.

Women like my wife’s friends would be better catches if one kept better house, and both lost some weight and tried to focus a little more on what they can do for a potential mate rather than only on what they can do for them.

However, this is the exact opposite to the media indoctrination we are all exposed to and women gobble up like thanksgiving dinner.

Omnipitron

Misogyny Origin Story!

I used to love the origins of Superheroes. I would pour over the Origin’s of marvel superheroes Wolverine, Colossus, Spiderman, and the like. Once my younger bro got involved in comics I read about lesser-known Heroes. WildC.A.T.S, Cyber Force, Stormwatch, Wetworks and the list goes on. It was cool to see these mild mannered people who where ‘just like you and me (only built like they never left the gym) adjusting to their new found powers and figuring out that they will use them for good.

Maybe, use them for the good of others to better mankind.

Well, I read another origin story today and it got me thinking, quite a bit. The Phantom Tollbooth is relatively young, but what I read today makes me want to share about my own misogynist origin, and why I want to spread the word.

You see, I’m a beta (surprise, surprise) and I knew that I couldn’t compete with all the Alpha’s who could lyrics the girls out of the trees, so using my reptile brain, I realized I needed an edge. I remember that women always complained about needing and wanting a nice guy, so I decided, heck, this is my ticket to getting the girl of my dreams, if I simply do what they say, I will have them eating out of my hand in NO time!!! I listened to whatever any woman told me and made sure to make mental notes of their desires.

I bought books, articles, and even got a subscription to Cosmopolitan in my bid to understand female psychology. I was going to get my dream girl, by being the ‘nice guy’; I honestly wondered why more men didn’t do this. I mean, all you had to do was get the information from the horse’s mouth!!!

While in high school, my plan worked as well as The Hindenburg’s maiden flight, but I simply dismissed this as women wanting bad boys when they where younger, and once older they would gravitate to ‘nice guys’ like me (cough). All I would do is bide my time and learn even more how to make woman happy, that is what I kept telling myself and I really had no reason not to believe it.

I got older, had a pretty serious girlfriend, and she cheated and broke up with me.

YAY, that was fun, no really.

Then I met yet another partner and decided to use my considerable ‘game’ (cough) on her as I wanted to keep her with me for the long haul. Now as time went on, things began to hit me upside my head but I barreled forward thinking I could break through. I figured that if I put my partner first, she would undoubtedly do the same for me.

Nope

I figured that if I met her needs, no matter how I didn’t want to do it, or even understand WHY she wanted them, that she would want to meet me halfway and meet my needs.

Nope.

I learned that my partner could be completely happy with me so long as I was meeting her needs, whether she was meeting mine or not was irrelevant. I learned that I could give almost my last breath to a woman thinking that she would reciprocate for me later on but that she would have no issues leaving me hanging because she ‘didn’t feel like it’.

Not a fun feeling, not in the slightest.

The interesting thing; this woman WASN’T a feminist, simply a run of the mill North American Woman. Gotta love entitlement, huh? They will bitch about how you aren’t meeting their needs, but will waffle when you ask about yours…brilliant.And also an FYI, counseling was also initiated, and the counselor had told me about my needs in terms of her appearance, “It’s her body, so it’s her choice what she wants to do with it!” No kidding, but she is entitled to my time now isn’t she and you would have NO issue telling me so…right?

That was a learning experience, gotta tell you, but it doesn’t end there. 

I had posted my circumstances online on a trusted message board, warning people that my sitch wasn’t politically correct whatsoever just to see what I could do, get some fresh eyes on the state of affairs. Most women gave me short but honest answers, an MRA who posts on The Spearhead gave me a good honest answer…and a NAW attacked me for it, and wouldn’t stop.

I sat there and read her posts, thinking…“After ALL that I had learned…after ALL that I had done to make sure that she was happy…and yes she WAS happy…you are STILL blaming this on ME!!”

I’m not making this up, my needs where chronically not being met and apparently this was all my fault? And you wonder why men aren’t getting married anymore?

During this time I was also getting a real education about womynkind and the wonderful, fluffy movement Feminism actually was. I had gone to the Advice Goddess; Amy Alkon’s blog and learned quite a few things. It was she who had initially administered the red pill and woke me up from the Matrix. I can remember to this day reading a blog entry of hers in regards to Domestic Violence statistics and how the information in regards to female abusers seemed to be…missing in the mainstream. Amy had provided the stats on both genders and I stared at the screen, thinking what this must had to mean to realize that a movement dedicated to ‘equality’ was spinning information in this manner. What did that say about their integrity?

It was on the Advice Goddess’ blog that I learned what men liked in women, and that it was okay for men to be attracted to a woman’s physical appearance. I was astounded at what she posted on her blog, actually defending a man’s sexuality and the so-called ‘fair’ females who would comment on her blog equally astounded me. Some of these ‘women’ would say that they are fair to men and understand their plight, but most of them wouldn’t be out of place working for NOW, and that is the bottom line.

I had gone online to ‘educate’ some women when it came to questions about men, and their sexuality and was astounded by the lack of information women had. I had a woman actually say that men being visual was a ‘myth’ and I won’t lie, as far as I was concerned, those where fighting words. I tried to argue my point, I got one woman to partially concede, but I lost a lot of respect for all women that day.

They always say; “Men just have to understand that women need this and that.”

Really, well then you also just have to understand that WE need this and that. Nah, ya’ll just don’t care about that though, that much is obvious.

The straw that broke the camel’s back was a letter submitted to an online columnist, a man who had just retired and was upset that his SAHW was running him out of the house on a daily basis. While the columnist herself had a decent reply, the commenters pilloried this man for getting upset with his wife in the first place.

LOLWUT????

Nobody gave two sh!t’s that this man worked his whole life to support his wife and children, NOBODY gave a flying rip that this man had sacrificed his life in order to make sure this family had. They just saw a man who was complaining about his wife and decided to attack.

My story isn’t as harsh as others, I didn’t lose a marriage or some kids, but I did see just what many women think of us men and all I can say to other guys is simply this.

F&CK ‘EM

Let ‘em sleep in the sh!t that they make for themselves. I realized that only by the grace of GOD or good fortune, take your pick, that I didn’t end up like one of those stories that I relate here on The Phantom Tollbooth.

I was just as stupid, giving women far more than they deserved but by reasons beyond my control, I didn’t end up with that sort of misfortune.

Seeing what women really think about us men was a harsh reality check and it really opened my eyes to see that they would have no issues binding me if I followed them as easily as they had enslaved others. Equality is a ruse; good men are losing their children and livelihoods to a type of woman who no longer exists. They don’t need us anymore, and furthermore, they don’t give a tinker’s damn about us and they make that abundantly clear everyday. Okay then, let THEM go mine some diamonds, let THEM go attack that bunker, let THEM go and transport goods and run our nuclear reactors.

Women only care about men so long as we have some productivity or use to them, they have shown their selfish hands and I can tell you, it wasn’t a good idea whatsoever for them to do that. I would have and did walk over hot coals to please a woman once, after I did it and they simply asked for more, NOT reciprocating me in the slightest, I dressed my 3^rd degree burns and put a stop to it before I injured myself more. They don’t deserve it, not at all and I refuse to put myself in that position again. I suggest you do the same.

I’m learning game, and for someone with ADHD, that will be really beneficial, not just in marital terms believe me. Women will look at messages and blogs like this and scoff. At the moment, they have no worries as Obama, and Stephen Harper provide for their child rearing desires.

It will only be when Big Daddy Guv has no mo money and more men tell them to get’to’steppin’ instead of marriage that blogs and messages like this will instill fear.

I don’t care ‘ladies’. You made your bed…lie in it.

Omnipitron

 

Daddy is Useless?

That is what I had read a few years ago in Macleans Magazine. The article infuriated me and I can remember another one released on father’s day this year.

Fathers are useless and families can do just fine without them.

Really? Seriously?

So this article is based on a documentary by Adrian Grenier about how he didn’t know his father when he was growing up, but hey, he turned out okay, right? Essentially, that how important can fathers be if he didn’t have one and look where he is now? All right then, let me say this; in my time at the bar, I have encountered many people who have used…colorful recreational substances, and lots of them.  Someone told me about how he had used ‘Yeyo’ once and got nothing from it, he never used it again. So I guess that all the statistics citing that cocaine is addictive is bunk because, hey, my buddy didn’t get addicted, right?

I think not, here is just one site featuring the statistics on this growing problem, which counters the favorite female viewpoint, but we all know that it falls on deaf ears.

Sigh.

And yet, what is the famous party line our friendly neighborhood fembots like to use in terms of misandristic laws, which take good men away from their children?

This is in the best interests for the children.  THINK ABOUT THE CHILDREN!!

Are they, are they really?

You know what, I’m now at the very young age of 35, I have both a full time career and at the moment, a part time job. While my career makes me look at the future and how I can do what I can for retirement for myself and what I can do for my family, my part time job makes me take a hard look at the present situation of society. It is very scary when you look at it and I always shake my head whenever the Law of the Jungle presents itself. When you read articles from the Spearhead and other MRA sites, you will always see things like “That woman is a slut!” “Men are stupid for getting married!” “Women are going to pay for their foolishness in time and that woman is going to get her comeuppance.”

However, the main thing that we miss is that each and every one of those people we talk about is a living, breathing person, just like you and me.

Some of us have a choice, taking the red pill and awakening from the Matrix before we crossed a chasm, which had no return. Others are indeed too far-gone to ever retread their paths and are faced with purgatory.

Understand that, some people are f$cked with no means of ever coming back, be they men or women!!!

When I go to the bar I work at, I see women aimlessly trying to slut their way into a man’s provisions, many single moms desperately looking for a man to aid them in their lives with the children they are now saddled with and have to provide for as time goes on. I had seen this amongst black people since I was a teenager, but now this single mommy hood is spreading amongst whites too, and growing with each passing year.

Just today, my Operations Manager told me about a co-worker that used to work at my bar. He was told that this rather attractive single mother that had met a new boyfriend not more than a month ago, and now she was engaged to him. I’ve worked with this girl for the last 3 years before she left of her own accord to another bar, before mommy hood had included her in it’s wondrous and beneficial club. She has many tattoos, three of which are the last three boyfriends she has dated in the past, the first being the father of her child. BTW, he was a yeyo using thug which my bar manager had an altercation with one day, putting him in the hospital. I’ve also seen this great specimen of a man getting arrested by the police after he took a swing at one and got dummied, REALLY hard.

Sigh, what a great choice to bring a child into the world with?!

Her parents divorced when she was young and she has been living with her mom for the remainder of her life. She is far from ugly, of this I can assure you, and she uses her looks to lure men into her life if she figures that you are a better deal that the one she is currently with. I kid you not when I state that I would see her with a different man pretty much every month before she left the bar I work at, and on Facebook, I would regularly see;

Such and such is single

Such and such is in a relationship

Repeated over and over again ad infinitum.

What, pray tell, is going to happen to her young child? What example is this going to set for her?  Is she going to follow in her illustrious mother’s footsteps?

Out of all the females that I meet and request friendship of me on Facebook due to my presence in the Nightclub industry, I know more single mothers now than I know married women. What does that tell you?

When I look around, and I have had to deal with immature black men from time to time and I have assisted the doormen with altercations on occasion; it makes me shake my head. It’s the blind leading the blind, as they try to fly after their adolescence, but instead hit the ground…hard… with false information and incomplete instruction as to how the world really works. There was little to no male influence in their respective lives, so there is no focus or outlet to their aggression. I’ve seen many men ejected or fight for the most foolish and frivolous of reasons…and so many of these men get mad at you for reacting to their bad behavior.

It’s at this time that I always think about my own father. My Dad, who wasn’t perfect, and really didn’t spend that much time with me growing up, but did his best with what he knew. My father, who grew up in the Caribbean, and deliberately lost his accent to make himself sound more intelligent all on his own with no prodding from his parents whatsoever. I have had people tell me that when they speak to him on the phone, he sounds British, and he has NEVER been to England.

My Dad did teach me right from wrong, and while he wasn’t perfect, he was all that I had, and now I realize that what he gave me is more than some will get in a lifetime!!! When I look at the growing number of immature men and women of all races, but especially black, I think back to something in my past, which had happened to me when I was a teenager at my very first job. I was working at a retail store and about to go home and the Supervisor’s wife who was helping for the night asked me a question.

“Omnipitron, is your father in the military?”

“No Mrs. Blank.” I answered. “Why do you say that?”

“Because they way you act towards you superiors makes me think that you had a very strict upbringing.”

At the time, I simply thought that this would be a compliment to not just my father, but my mother as well. As I get to this current stage in my life, I realize one thing; I could have been a LOT worse and while my life isn’t perfect, it is a far cry from the lives I see in the bar on a regular basis, and even some of the ‘fallen souls’ I encountered in high school. While my mother did make sure I knew right from wrong, my father did set an example which I didn’t even appreciate until now.

Daddy ISN’T useless; and only fools think that they are.

Omnipitron

SUCK IT UP; BUTTERCUP!!!

Today was very hard and very long.

Er…I mean it was very difficult and didn’t seem like it would ever end. However, this day was especially draining for two reasons, both of them being the same reasons in actuality. You see, I had a chance to have two different heart to hearts with two buddies going through a tumultuous time in their respective marriages. “WL” came back to the bar for the first time, and during the day, I had a chance to meet another friend, ‘M’ at one of the facilities I service at my fulltime job.

Let me ask you one very important thing; have you ever seen a grown man cry? Have you ever seen a man, fight his hardest to make sure that he doesn’t cry in front of you?

I will tell you one very significant thing; just watching these two men relate their tales of woe while you watch their eyes as they water ‘due to the smoke’ makes me want to simply just lash out in anger for the system, which has enslaved them in this manner. “WL” was told by the Justice of the Peace presiding over his case that the system has gotten far too sensitive in terms of the rules of assault against women, and he sees far too many men standing before him because their wives called the cops for an issue which didn’t exist. A shove, even if getting an irate woman out of your personal space, is considered ‘too much’ and can land you in the same hot water that filling her face repeatedly would.

I sat in my truck not even an hour ago, as I watched WL relate to me how he does want to go home and see his kids. How he will be spending a little time with them this weekend as they haven’t seen him in a while, but he wonders how he will react. I watched, as his eyes got watery as he talked about Christmastime, and what would he do if he didn’t get to go back and see his kids at that special time of year. When he was done, he walked into a coffee shop to wait for 20 or so minutes so he can walk 45 minutes to catch the 1^st bus to Toronto, at around 5:00am so he can take another bus to a city an hour past Toronto, and then take yet another bus to the city in which he temporarily lives.

He figures that he should be in bed by 9:30 am.

The guy is a bloody machine; I wish I had the space to give to him.

You see, he has been charged with assault, and as such, he must stay 500 feet from his wife at all times. This means that he can’t come close to his family if his wife is around, for ‘her’ safety of course.

I actually got an update that his wife wants to repeal the charge, now it’s out of her hands, and she has no choice in the matter any longer.

Hmm, cause and effect? Good thing to learn isn’t it?

However, earlier that day, I had to talk to my friend M and hear his story. M’s mother was sick from late last year, and he wanted to be able to have his mom live with him so he could keep an eye on her. His wife wouldn’t allow it and she was backed by her mother so M was basically in a corner. Yeah, well M’s mother died not too long ago, the funeral was on Labor Day. Do you think that his wife supported him in any way?

Nah, she just took the time to drive to her mother’s and spit venom about how M was so selfish and no longer taking care of her needs. I know it’s getting colder these days, but I had to wonder why M seemed to have the sniffles so early in fall. Then I took a look at his eyes and realized that he was doing his best not to break down in front of me, his voice cracking a few times.

Men are strong, damn strong, but while it’s upsetting to see a woman cry, it’s devastating to see a man cry. You know beyond a shadow of a doubt that it takes tremendous pressure to make a man, who has the tensile strength of a bridge cable, break from strain.

I saw it twice today, and it made me see red.

These men aren’t just husbands, but fathers as well, and instead of respect, they get contempt, and disregard for their feelings. WL’s wife is feeling the effects of her poor choice, but I will also tell you this, do you think she has apologized for this action? Nope, just tells WL that she feels bad enough about this situation. He even said himself about her, it’s all; ME, ME, ME.

Where is a man’s support system? Who do men go to when they need bolstering up, a shoulder to lean on? What can we do?

Oh yeah, that’s right; simply and silently march onto the showers like we have been ordered…the showers with NO water just like in Auschwitz.

Women will indeed miss it when fathers are a rare commodity, too bad they will only learn this once they are virtually gone!!

Omnipitron

 

Hero

What is a hero? What does it take to be one? What sort of training or trial by fire is required to anoint the average everyday person with such a vaunted mantle?

I would assume that it is different for everyone, the definition I mean. While the definition can be found here, I have an inkling that everyone differs from the normal Webster’s definition.

What, or who is a Hero to me?

Well, my sister is a hero for consoling my mother when my father had done the unthinkable……at 11 years old!!! My mother is a hero for doing the unthinkable way back in the early 80’s. My younger brother is a Hero for standing up for me way back when in Junior High, but, my father is also a hero for how he raised me and how much he had shaped me even though some would say that he didn’t spend that much time with me. I only appreciate it now as a man when you see so many immature males running around by the wayside. Then you realize that; “There, by the grace of God (or fate) go I” and you respect the line which differentiates you from the masses.

As for me, I have another Hero. I happened across facebook and read my buddy’s wall. I came across a post which just ripped me apart, a father telling his kids that he loved them and that they where in his heart, even though he isn’t there to tell him that in person.

It’s ripping his heart out that he can’t be there with them in person, and once more, I learn even more what a machine my man WL is.

It’s disgusting that a man like that asks for so little and yet he is told by his wife, and the media that he asks for SO much.

We men would DIE for our families. I would too and I have no biological children. Who do you think would lie down and die for us? Our wives?

Nope…..our parents, especially our fathers.

Learn it!!

Omnipitron

What the @#$@# did you just call me???

A chinstrap, yeah that’s right, I just called you a Chinstrap. Now I know Ma’am that you are looking at me with murder in your eyes as you consider this ridiculous label I have applied to you, but unknowingly, I have bestowed upon you a very high honor.

Allow me to explain myself, okay?

Every male child in this world is born and then without fail gets a brand placed onto his forehead. He has no choice, and this brand is simply part of his makeup, in essence, part of him being a man. That Brand;

RESPONSIBILITY

You aren’t a man if you chose to shirk responsibility, and men (in previous eras) made sure that this was the case. Responsibility was your task and your burden as men had the broad shoulders to handle such an assignment. Men are told to “man up, suck it up, deal with it, be a man”, and all sorts of other phrases to teach us to get back up, wipe ourselves off, and keep on, keepin’ on no matter what it was that knocked us down in the first place. If we make excuses, we are no longer deemed ‘men’, by both men and women.

This is our lot in life, we don’t complain, we try not to show pain, and we inherently need very little in life. Soldiers are most of our heroes, and heroes inspire, they don’t criticize, protest, or grumble.

They keep doing what needs to be done, no matter the cost.

If our families need for something, we take that personally as it is our RESPONSIBILITY to take care of all their needs. We need so little that even the smile on our charges faces warms us from the depth of our souls. We need no thanks, just a hug and an “I love you Daddy” is enough for us to sell our souls and go back to the life crushing hellholes, which most call ‘careers’.

But what of woman, what is the deal with them?

Well, thanks to Feminism, women too, can have responsibility. However, there is one exception. For them, it isn’t a brand, but a bonnet with strings, which can be loosed and discarded whenever the situation warrants it. 

Not enough pay? THAT’S NOT FAIR; I’M JUST AS GOOD AS ANY MAN!!! Bonnet stays tight.

Convicted of murder? False Rape, DV allegation? A simple ‘oops’ which you don’t want? I’m just a lowly woman; I couldn’t be responsible for that!!! And the bonnet is removed.

Funny, we men aren’t supposed to do that, but we are heavily chastised for that behavior. We don’t have a backup plan, but our ‘equals’ do?

Why the talk about all of this? Well, in the midst of all this hard fought and ill-timed female privilege, there are a few women (a scant few) who actually realize what the mantle of responsibility ACTUALLY means!! These women press hard, and fight to be recognized amongst their male peers by following in their footsteps. To be rewarded simply due to their gender is a travesty to them, and they want to work for the same responsibilities their male counterparts do. They realize that if a man gets the shaft, this is indeed wrong and actually fights for them (rare I know). These women are also p!ssed off by female privilege as they watch lesser females attain the same, or greater success by their gender alone after all the long, hard work and hours they decided to put in to be recognized by the same ruler men use.

For these women, responsibility isn’t a bonnet, but a helmet, which they don and then strap themselves in so it can’t be removed easily, even by themselves, no MATTER the consequences.

And most women hate them for it.

RESPONSIBLE women, despise the actions of their entitled sisters, as they undermine everything that ‘equality’ was meant to give them. The sad thing, these women are so few in number that the chinstraps that any man or MRA has encountered is so rare, most can count them on one hand.

I know I can. I have actually mistaken a few chinstraps to be men until a post or a reference to their personal lives (i.e. my husband says…) changes my opinion of them, and therefore, my respect for them. Most women DO NOT have my respect!!!

I wish there where more of them. I doubt I’m the only one.

I toast the few Chinstraps that are out there and although I’m not a Christian, God Bless You for not succumbing and crossing through the door that is available to all women in terms of female entitlement. It astounds me that you have this choice, but your morals and character do not permit you to submit.

It takes cojones to see a way out and not take it. You few Chinstraps are truly men’s equals.

Omnipitron

Getting Unstuck

I look forward to Saturdays at my part time job. The Club isn’t as busy, so we have one less ‘tender on the bar so I usually make more money, which is the whole name of the game anyway, right? Well, recently I have been in a somewhat playful ‘tussle’ as it where with one of the senior short order cooks in terms of Globalism vs. Feminism.  You see, I have been listening to him for the past 2 months of Saturdays as he endlessly drones on about the evils of Globalism, Corporatism and the like, and I must say, he is very well read, and I can see he has a point. I will indeed need to look into this further as I have seen this topic touched upon before and there probably is a link between our friendly fembots and Money INC.

However, when I told him about the effects of Feminism on the West, he went off the deep end, as if this was simply a diversion of the REAL issue, which was big, bad Globalism. I had sent him to the Spearhead, and he did indeed see that some of the guys there had been screwed over by women, but then he had told me that he had spoken to a woman online about some of the socialist countries in Europe which where ‘doing it right’ and the West needed to emulate.

His examples; Norway and, wait for it…Sweden.

Sigh

He had spoken to a Swedish Feminist online and she had told him that she didn’t like the hard-line feminazi’s herself and they where simply following the Globalist regime, but she was against all the misandry present in the country herself.

Ahem, I then asked him one question; when any laws which were ever passed in Norway, or Sweden which disenfranchised men, where were the Feminists fighting for their rights? 

He didn’t have an answer for me.

I don’t have any links to support my allegations that there are no positive Feminists in Scandinavia, but I will be coming back with them after I do indeed conduct some research in the matter. I really think my search will reveal some sobering information for my dear friend when I come back with some news which will knock his precious Sweden and Norway off their ‘equality’ pedestal he has put them on.

For crying out loud, he went to the freaken’ Nazi’s themselves when looking for information in regards to the Gestapo’s movements!! What do you THINK they are going to say?

We discussed some more about the future and what it means to be a Man living in the West and the more we spoke, the more I think he is trapped in some sort of netherworld where knowledge of something one can’t really change is some sort of powerful agent for good. I told him that the best thing for a man to do now is to never get married; his response was for the West to adopt Socialist policies like Scandinavia.

When I pointed out that the Government has no interest in that sort of change, he went on regurgitating what he had read which pointed out just how the American Government had sold out. While knowing about it is indeed good, how was that going to help John Q Public?

I wonder how that would have helped WL as he wonders about his future with an assault charge on his record, being told about Globalism and such before he got married? I wonder about my other friend, NS, who is separated from his wife who is using the family courts to her advantage in regards to their daughter. I wonder how telling another friend of mine, DC who is working 7 days a week under the table to get enough money to launch a legal battery against his ex wife just in order to see his daughter once more about Globalism. Would that information have assisted him before he got married?

I had heard something very profound very recently, that the most enslaved people don’t see the bars on their cages. The funny thing;

It was this particular cook who had told me that.

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That’ll NEVER happen to me!!!

I like many other men and women in North America, have a part time job as well as my fulltime career. Many don’t know much about my full time job as due to it’s sensitive nature and the fact that people tend to get unnerved when the R word comes in (think The Incredible Hulk, or Spiderman) it’s better to keep it on the DL. I’ve since learned that explaining what I do is too much effort and simply referencing Homer Simpson from our longest running cartoon television show is much easier and the point comes off much smoother. However, my part time job in a nightclub is where one can get some very interesting viewing of how men and women react with each other in a ‘relaxed setting’ so to speak. Trust me, I have learned quite a bit just by walking around the bar and watching the show unfold before me.

At any rate, I had arrived at my part time gig just last night and wondered why the dance floor wasn’t cleared and our beer bins not set up. I had asked the other waitresses where my buddy ‘WL’ was who is supposed to take care of that and why wasn’t he here yet?

“His wife just called about 30 minutes ago to say that he wasn’t coming in tonight.” Was the answer I was given.

Strange, that isn’t like WL whatsoever. Let me tell you a little about my hard fought buddy WL, he is a beta, just like me who is the sole breadwinner in his household of 6 people, four kids, himself and his lovely (ahem) wife. He does have a fulltime job in logistics, but as the sole breadwinner, he obviously needed to pad his income, and that is how I came to meet him 2 years ago when he joined the staff at the bar.

WL has gotten his security training (a must in Ontario now) so when he wasn’t working at the bar, or at his full time job, he was moonlighting as a security guard for some of the many concerts or social events in neighboring Toronto, and yes, this dude didn’t get a lot of sleep. You see, on top of working all these hours, he had an issue with his eyesight so that driving for him was an impossibility. So, he would ride his bike 45 minutes to and from work, then ride to the bar on the weekends, and have to beg, borrow, and steal lifts to Toronto for a little extra cash.

And what for do you ask?

For a battle axe of a wife who denigrated him at every chance, overspent the money for the household, and denied him any sexual appreciation on a regular basis. Sure, was WL, perfect, heck, NONE of us are, and I had heard the stories and thought to myself (Remember Omni, you’ve heard only ONE side of the story) then I met her myself.

I’d gnaw my arm off to get away from someone like that, there was no reward for putting up with all of that sh!t!

I’ve even seen some comments from her on Facebook in regards to simple jokes and/or statements WL had posted, nothing any different from what any regular Joe would put on their wall, and frankly, some of her comments where so disrespectful that even my wife would jump and comment in his defense.

Imagine folks, waking up early to for a 45 minute bike ride across town, busting your ass all day, then riding 45 minutes home once more, then you crash on the couch because you want to take a nap, then are woken up just a few minutes later with a shrill;

“Must be NICE to be able to sleep!”

Is motherhood tough, you betcha, I won’t argue whatsoever about that! However, the two older ones are in school, so all she does is take care of the younger two and she usually has people over or goes out and visits them. WL, also helps around the house quite a bit so it isn’t as if she slaving away doing that either.

However, the one thing, which really opened my eyes about how much of a machine WL was for living such a life and not pulling his hair out, was the huge smile on his face when he was holding his children, or spending time with them. He was still attending the kid’s football/soccer/hockey games and even assisted coaching sometimes, and he loved every minute of it, despite the lack of sleep. WL suffered on a daily basis, but I can tell you that you would never see that when he was with his kids.

Well, yesterday I shook my head and considered what could have happened to WL as the night progressed. This dude will only call in if he’s pretty much dead so something fairly serious must have happened. Then, JS, WL’s close friend walked into the bar, his eyes burning into mine. He knew what happened to WL and he told me what the deal was. WL’s wife had been even worse as of late, she had been telling WL that she no longer wanted to be married, or to be there with him for the last little while and WL swore that she was trying to get rid of him. Turns out he was right, because WL had been arrested last night for assault.

Does WL have a temper, yup, he told me so himself, but he was a bouncer/barback at the club and I have never seen him really lose his temper and fly off the handle, and I have seen him break up a few brawls over the years. I also happen to know that his wife loves to push his buttons and is very good at it!! However, he has NEVER hit her, and refuses to do so.

JS was told that WL ‘Had just gone berserk and I had to call the cops.’

We both know the deal, and neither of us believed it. She didn’t say that he hit her, didn’t say that he had harmed any of the kids, just that he had suddenly, and inexplicably ‘gone berserk’.

However, the ending shot to JS was the best, because he was then told that;

“And WL is probably going to blame this on me!”

Un-fucking-believable!!

This man busts his hump, doesn’t receive ANY of the 5 needs men typically have, and now will lose his security license due to this assault charge, which will affect his income, and possibly future opportunities, because he committed one simple mistake.

He got married to a North American Woman.

Folks, I have read this many times, people getting falsely accused of DV, and I bet WL would NEVER have thought that it would happen to him, but it can, this is the proof of that. One must remember one simple thing, to everyone else, you ARE someone else, and that these sad little circumstances has to happen to someone, and that someone is a living, breathing person.

Just

Like

You.

The only question you have to ask is will YOU be the next contestant of “Fuck My Life Up Royal?”

That will never happen to me.

WL never thought that either, and I had never known anyone personally who had been falsely accused…until now.

Are you willing to take that chance?

Omnipitron

 

The Beginning

I was watching the 70’s show with my wife a few days ago and I couldn’t help but notice something. In the episode, Midge Pinciotti was becoming a ‘Women Warrior” and her husband, Bob Pinciotti, was chafing under this new change in his wife. As I considered the situation for a second, I couldn’t help but see the irony, which is akin to what modern men in Western Society currently find themselves in. Misandry is ubiquitous and men don’t even recognize it, or realize how many rights we as a whole no longer have until it’s too late, sometimes far too late depending on the situation. It really messed me up the first time I woke up from the matrix, reading something ironically on a woman’s blog about how Domestic Violence statistics are still making men out to be horrific abusers yet seemed to neglect additional information regarding the increase of women on men’s violence.

That was the beginning of a journey, which enlightened me to the level of misandry present in the West and now innocent things like jokes about men or off color statements don’t strike me the same way anymore. My wife has sent me some grrl power emails forwarded from her friends that just a few short years ago I would have chuckled at, but now since reading about the plight men face, I in turn now reply with some truthful and realistic replies. I have stood my ground and told ‘the ugly truth’ to females living in fantasyland whenever the need arises. It then occurred to me, how am I any different from Midge when she was trying to make a difference in her own life in the fictional story of “That 70’s Show”? Well, I guess this is the irony of the situation, that I, and many other men have now traded places with feminists, getting a little edgy with certain ‘jokes’ that the ‘ruling class’ finds entertaining, and being sensitive at certain situations, which most women find innocent and innocuous.

Well, this is the deal. Now we men are the ‘underclass’. Now womyn are the one’s making funny ‘jokes’ as men march off to the gas chambers and are told to be ‘happy about it’ as we are lucky to be in the service of ‘womyn’ at all. How we have switched places is very interesting and I’m sure in the future much will be written about this, but in the meantime, we have to make it through this with our skins, and sometimes our sons intact, not a small order considering the times. This juxtaposition isn’t lost on me, and I have to shake my head at the situation in its entirety. If you had told me I would even be blogging about this when I was 17 I would have laughed at you in the absolute absurdity of the idea, but now it seems to be a necessity. Men and womyn have switched places and it is we men who are now the ones who are ‘meeting’ in small cramped venues (the internet) and conversing over the injustices we as a group now face as the oligarchy in power decides our fate. I’ve read The Misandry Bubble by our dear friend The Futurist and I know that this gulag known as feminism will come to a flaming end, but not without some issues first which we all will have to suffer through. This particular blog will serve as my online journal as we watch this farce known as “North American Culture” comes to a fiery and crashing end. 

I admit, I have no sympathy for womyn as this situation could have been avoided had they simply realized or even remembered the main motto of feminism. EQUALITY means the same for one as it does for the other. However, it seems that womyn have no interest in the issues that men currently face and more and more of Feminism’s Agenda’s serves only to castrate and disenfranchise men while empowering women. It seems that the womyn’s movement is fascist in nature and we men have to fend for ourselves. Sad really, as I wonder how many women had said the same thing about us men in the past when they decided to ramp up their underground movement to ‘overthrow the man’ and make changes?  How soon we forget huh? While we can argue about who is right and who is wrong, the truth is that we are the ones who will have to watch our asses in the future as womyn push their agendas as time passes, consolidating their power at our expense.

Us men may have not been 100% fair in history, but while women in the past may not have had the vote or other rights men had, men where also doing their best to make sure that their families where taken care of, something that many feminists would be hard pressed to prove in these times.

Good luck to all of us during these times. We will need it.

Omnipitron