Female Sexual Power

Okay, although I’d read this article quite a while ago on The Spearhead, I hadn’t had the time to post about it until recently. You see the premise which Henry Laasanen states is actually quite illuminating, in my opinion as it appears to me, I think some of his conclusions have been reached due to looking at only one aspect in regards to male and female interactions. One of his conclusions wasthat men need women more than women need men.

Now, I can see this conclusion making sense if Henry had decided to look ONLY at sex when considering male and female leverage, but unfortunately doing so does both men and women a disservice. To be honest, that statement got my back up, part of the issue with men nowadays is that they believe this myth to be true which is why they accept bullsh!t behavior from women right from the jump. Moreover, it also instills a false sense of superiority in women, which is entirely unjustified. It isn’t true, and I believe that Henry needs to widen his scope in order to assist in facilitating his premise.

Yes, if one looks Only at sexual relations, it’s fairly easy to see that women by and large have men over a barrel. No, women may not pursue sex to the level men regularly do and that can be an advantage since that means that women have some leverage over men in this regard. However, men and women do not trade sex in and of itself, there is far more going on than that.

In truth, Henry is making the very same mistake that our friendly neighborhood feminist’s are making,assuming that men and women are far more similar than they really are and basing conclusions on this faulty premise. As I’ve stated in the negotiation; what Henry is forgetting is that women trade sex, (what men want and are willing to pay for) for a man’s resources (what women want and are willing to trade for). You see, both genders are looking out for their own best interests and seeking out the best deal for what they can get. To say that men and women trade in only sex would be like saying that when people are looking for houses, they trade ONLY in real estate, no mortgages, no banks, no money, just a house for a house.

How well would that work?

Women know that men like sex well enough to pay for it,which is why they where able to trade men sex for commitment. It’s due to the value that men place on sexual relations to women that a man may engage in a sex chat with women, but women may not so readily do so themselves. What do they get out of it other than a power trip at the expense of the men they are talking to? However, just as Henry had stated that women don’t engage in that behavior, men also don’t spend billions of dollars a year on their appearance now do they?

Since women don’t value sex in the same way that men do,what is the return on a man investing on his appearance in a manner such as this?

See, when one looks at other aspects of the negotiation, it becomes fairly evident that the old adage that “women need men like fish need a bicycle” is wholly false. Even the tremendous power of the male sex drive can be described akin to a biblical parable, it giveth and it taketh away. Men are VERY willing to pay for sex with attractive women…and women can take advantage of that. However, the downside is that men are VERY willing to pay for sex with attractive women…and women can take advantage of that. That a 30 something businessman maybe willing to spoil a 20 something woman rotten only to shag her, but…this businessman will also be willing to spoil OTHER 20 something women rotten only to shag them when he is 40 something and the initial woman is now 30 something and no longer worth his time.

That is the true nature of women’s sexual power. It isn’t something for men to adapt to, mainly because men don’t have too. Game and/or MGTOW is all a man needs, we simply don’t need women in the same capacity that women need us. There will always be a younger/hotter woman and when one considers what both genders bring to the table in the negotiation, the ‘women don’t need men myth’ is busted pretty handily. The world would change tomorrow if more men realized the truth about their own power and leverage. In fact, Emma the Emo had a comment, which I think, really hit the nail on the head.

Furthermore, another issue I had with Henry’s article was the fact that yes; he did acknowledge that due to the aggregate  investment of men in society, women didn’t need individual men in the same capacity. Once more, by not looking at a larger picture, he misses out WHY men invest in society in the first place and even realizing that men can opt out if they so choose.

All in all, it was a very interesting article, only that some of the conclusions where in error.

Omnipitron

Ground Zero

c/o remotecontrol.mtv.com

Jersey Shore is complete crap, but that is why I watch it from time to time.To me it’s like a horrific car crash, which I simply can’t turn away from nomatter how bad it gets. However, something happened a few weeks back, whichreally caught my attention, between Dj Pauly D, and a random girl he meets at Club Karma who was DTF.

I know I’m getting older, but I had to ask my niece whatthat meant. For those of you oldies like myself, it means Down To F@ck.

They go back to the Shore House and do their business; Paulycalls a cab soon after the fact, and makes light of the whole situation. Now, DTF girl actuallysteals Pauly’s chain and leaves. Pauly now realizes that it’s missing and is in a tizzy trying to find it. The next day, she returns wearing it, stating, “Oh my god, I have no idea how I ended up with yourvery expensive jewelry in my panties. It just happened! Aren’t I silly!”Okay, she didn’t actually say that, but you get the picture.

Snooki read my mind (yeah I know, scary huh?) as I watchedthis ‘episode’ unfold in front of me and stated exactly what I took from the sitch;

“She stole it so she could come back and f@ck DJ PaulyD again. That’s what I’d do.”

Nice, stealing the chain SIMPLY as a way to return andreceive more attention from the guy she currently has in her sights. Whatreally had me going was simply this; does anyone NOT realize what just happenedin that situation between DTF girl and Pauly D? Doesn’t anyone realize just howPATHETIC DTF girl was in this situation? To be reduced to theft in a weak bidto get more face time with the dude she currently fancies? What precisely didshe get out of this exactly? Only a random ride from a famous dude who doesn’teven care to know her now that the deed is done is what. Money says that Paulydoesn’t know her middle name, why would be want too?

Some may say that I’m looking into this too much, but thisis my take on this ridiculous situation. I refer to it as GroundZero; basically those exact circumstances are precisely whatPatriarchy was invented to protect women from. Men by and large do not valuemarriage the same way women do, and a man’s biological imperative isexceptionally easy to meet. In fact, it’s so easy to meet that a man can getexactly what he wants and skirt away without meeting a woman’s IF the womanisn’t smart enough to adequately manage the assets men find attractive.

Bluntly, he get’s a ride for the night, and she get’snothing more than a notch on her belt for her trouble. Why would he want tomeet her B.I., he already got what he wanted out of the deal. Hey, it’s a goodthing that men don’t care too much about settling down with a high mileage orloose woman, right…oh wait.

Here’s the sitch, and I’m not getting down on Pauly D even ifit seems that I am. He’s simply doing what so many other young men are engagingin right now with a bevy of willing women. Now that chastity is the thing ofthe past, young people can have all the hassle free sex they wish, I mean,chastity is oppressive, who pray tell wishes for that yoke to ever return? Men have no reason to invest in a woman to be honest now that the price of admission has been all but removed.

Thanks to the crap pumped out in the lamestream media, DTF Girldoesn’t even realize that she ended up on the losing end of that bargain. Shegave it up so easily, she now has no ‘currency’ so to speak to trade with Paulyany longer. It’s one thing to read about this stuff on the manosphere, it’s truly another to see it happen so easily right in front of you!! I have yet to meet a man who ever wanted to marry a woman solelybecause she spent the night with someone famous.

Omnipitron

False Accusations…

c/o Zazzle.com

Been reading about Audrey Ference and her position on false rape allegations and all I can say is thatI’m appalled. Heck, even after this woman had seen the effects of a false rapeclaim on a male she knew, she still maintains the famous feminist paradigm thatjailing or ruining innocent men is the price to be paid for women’s safety.

Ugh.

Heck, I’m no rape supporter, nor am I a supporter of menassaulting women, never have been nor will I ever think it’s okay. However,it’s the fact that many women do feel they can let fly such an accusationmainly because there are little to no negative repercussions they will face indoing so. Long ago, I had written about a co-worker, WL who had suffered at thehands of such a false accusation. No it wasn’t rape, it was physical assault, butthe bottom line is that it was indeed FALSE.

Didn’t stop him from having to live with his parents for 3months in order to get the situation rectified.

I’ve said this before on The Phantom Tollbooth, and I’ll sayit again; reading stats and stories from unfortunate souls is one thing, havingit happen to a loved one close to you, or even to yourself is another matteraltogether!! My own nephew in law had a near miss a few years ago. Sadly, itwas the very same sitch that had happened to WL. When my NIL was in highschool,he and a female ‘friend’ of his got into a heated argument. She got right upinto his face and was screaming at him. He finally had enough and pushed heraway from him. Understand, he didn’t push her to the ground, he didn’t slapher, he didn’t even punch her, he simply pushed her and shouted ‘Get away fromme!’

She took a few steps back, looked at him dead in the eye andsaid; “You just hit me!”

My NIL went white! He instantly knew that he could bescrewed but thankfully, my former brother in law saw the whole thing and toldhim to get inside the house while telling her to leave. In addition, my SIL andformer BIL also knew well enough to realize that she was a smoking gun, andlater that year when my NIL was having a party, they turned her away when sheshowed up at the door. They wouldn’t even let her in the house, they whereafraid of what it was that she could do.

Women have a tremendous amount of power today due to Feminism and they are sadlyindiscriminate about how they choose to use it. This woman leveled a shotacross the bow of my family, and luckily, no one got hurt. Others aren’t solucky and the sad thing is why she even loaded her cannon and took a shot inthe first place.

Due to the fact that she lost her temper and was losing anargument.

Here’s a question, how about all the ladies who supportAudrey’s despicable position approach a REAL rape or assault victim who has hadtheir life forever changed and is wondering just how to deal with coping andtell them a story such as this. How do you think they will react? How abouttelling them about the Duke False Rape brouhaha and the effects that has had onthe lives of those men? How about the Hofstra case, what about that situation? You think they would feel good about nursing a violentmemory and sense of violation and seeing women throwing around claims of rapefor less than serious reasons? How does one think it would feel to see someoneelse using something that you may NEVER heal from solely as a means for gainingrevenge of erasing a transgression? Does one ever consider how much it wouldhurt to see someone trivialize something as serious as rape in a manner such asthat?

Think about it…think about it long and hard.

Omnipitron

Reproductive Supremacy

Great post on The Damned Olde Man’s website. I’ve said itbefore, and I’ll say it again, supremacy is the goal of feminism. Let me fillyou in on something, kay, here’s the deal. While we human beings may not fathomour animalistic natures on a conscious level, we do have an inkling deep in oursubconscious. Some refer to it as our reptile brains, which is simply athrowback to an earlier time in our development. What I’m trying to say is thatat the end of the day, human beings are animals, and as much as we don’t wantto consider ourselves the same as the dogs which return to their vomit on theside of the road, we still have basic instincts which shape our most basicwants and needs.

What does this have to do with TDOM’s post?

Simply put, women are faced with a very large paradox. Inorder for them to achieve their most vaunted goal which is independence frommen, they have to ensure that men have no independence themselves. Neitherfinancial independence nor any reproductive independence, whatsoever in any wayshape or form. IF men achieve this, then the fallacy of female independencedissolves like an alka seltzer in a small glass of water.

Women’s ‘independence’ is a direct result of the works menput forth into society which is why when they bray on and on about their ownfreedom from the patriarchy, they will never suggest men achieve the same ends.

In short, what I’m saying is that at the very least, manywomen aren’t so foolish to completely ignore where theirresources and therefore their vaunted independence actually come from, but theyare loathe to actually admit it. Nor do they wish to give accolades to the menwho make their fallacy even remotely seem like a reality. This is simply nothing but a difference in the genders, since men don’t need the works of women simply to survive, of course there are no safety nets to catch the men who can’t make it on their own. The fallacy is that it’s men who finance the very safety nets which women require to ‘make it on their own’ without a man in the first place. This is why HannaRosin brays on and on about the “End of Men” while not considering for one reason or another where the ability for women do supersede men originates.

Women by and large are fighting for their financial andreproductive ‘independence’ and to do so means to try and bind the hands of menas much as possible. For women to achieve power, control, and choice, it meansthat those three things must be taken out of the hands of men. Keep this inmind when considering the motivations of women by and large, yeah?

Omnipitron.

Female MRA’s?

Girl Writes What is a female blogger who has her own youtubechannel and speaks about men’s issues and the troubles with Feminism. She alsoposts regularly at a Voice For Men which is run by Paul Elam. This my friendsis great news because as I have stated before in terms of rapport in regards tomen and women attempting to reach their younger counterparts, she will be ableto reach many more women then we could ever hope to ourselves.

Sure, many women won’t listen and will simply disregard heridea’s, but that doesn’t change the fact that as a woman, she will be far moreeffective in getting the message out. As NWOslave points out on The Spearhead;

“The sad part is, if a man says the same thing, as men havedone thousands of times he’ll be universally declared a misogynist. When awoman says the same thing men have been saying for decades, it suddenly hasrelevance and her words are deserving of further contemplation.”

Yes it is sad, but a truth nonetheless.

However, many doubt the integrity of women such as GirlWrites What and to be honest, I simply can’t blame anyone who does. While shedoes seem on the level, men have been sh!t on for so long and seen too manywolves in sheep’s clothing so they aren’t very quick in trusting women at thispoint in time. Greyghost had an amazing comment which may be blunt but I dohave to agree with.

‘I see this woman as a NAWALT example for the blue pillers.At the same time she is also another source for the MRM message.
That being said she is a woman and she is and will always be on team woman nodoubt about that. That is normal and natural for any women.(that is why game isso effective and explain the irrational behavior) This is no enlightenment andthere is no way it can be changed. If it is in her selfish interest to treat aman well a child or give a damn anything she will. That is normal. And that isthe best you are going to get and can be expected from a woman period.’

In my opinion as it appears to me, the purity of purpose ofa woman joining the MRM ranks simply due to the injustice men face may be too much to expect. However, solong as women realize that their own interests are being undermined throughfeminism can we not reach the same destination? I’m not saying to jump on GWW’sbandwagon, or that of any other female MRA who ‘joins the ranks’ so to speak.Far from it, let her prove her worth and earn that trust herself. All I’msaying is that women will start to fill MRA ranks once it becomes more clearthat Feminism is hurting their own well being especially if they are youngenough to achieve their goals or they have children facing the unequal playing field which has become contemporary society.

One more thing to realize about the two support networksbetween men and women is that more and more men are waking up from the matrixand are now questioning the current paradigm at large. An increasing amount ofmen are administering the red pill themselves and due to the loss of the formermale support network, there are less and less ‘voices’ to get men to grow upand take responsibility. Actually, it’s now becoming obvious why Feminismhates the MRM as much as they do.

MRA’s are taking the place of Masculinity Inc and just as wehave no rapport with women, they have none with men.

This is simply the deal, even if purity of purpose isn’tapparent and some women only operate out of self-preservation by joining theMRM ranks, by stating the truth of the matter they will help far more than theycan hurt. If they turn out to simply be turncoats, then we can reject them andstill continue on our own way.

One more thing to any lady who is reading this and wonderingabout men’s rights. The earlier you join, the better you will be received.Allow me to tell you something I learned while reading about infidelity online.When reconciliation is attempted, the chances of success are increased thesooner the wandering spouse (WS) accepts their errors and ‘owns their sh!t’.The harder the betrayed spouse (BS) has to work and the longer they have towait in order to get the WS to this point, the smaller the chances ofreconciliation. Essentially, when admitting fault is done sooner, it appears tothe BS that the WS wants to change for the greater good of the relationship andthe family.

However, and I’ve seen a few examples of this, when the WSnow turns around ONLY when the BS is literally about to leave them, then itonly seems that they have changed their tune simply to cover their own @$$. Inmy opinion as it appears to me, there will come a time when denouncing feminismwill be seen as a necessity in order to gain the trust of some men. If you jointhe ranks at that time, it will be very plain to many a man that you are onlydoing so out of blatant self-preservation because your back is against thewall.

Omnipitron

Ripples in the Pond

A lot of talk in the manosphere in regards to the ill-fatedCosta Concordia and it’s ‘unscheduled stop’ off the Italian Coast. The mainthing which seems to trouble the lamestream media is that men abandoned allforms of chivalry and made for the lifeboats, roughly pushing women aside whenthey felt their lies where in danger. Yes, some MRA’s are looking at this as practical proof that Feminism hasbackfired on women, but there is much more to this situation than meets the eyemy friends.

I can promise you this much; this situation is more than alittle disconcerting to women at large than most men realize.

Understand this, while the issue of men protectingthemselves and/or their immediate families at the expense of women is indeed asign of the times, the fact that when the traditional shaming tactics wheremade by the same lamestream media was brought to bear, the commentariat of saidarticles didn’t react the way some had intended.

Like ripples in a pond, the only thing this sign of thetimes has revealed is that the winds of change are indeed blowing, and blowingagainst female privilege at male’s expense.

While the tide hasn’t turned yet and any ‘revolution’ isstill gestating, women are very slowly (but surely) realizing that when thechips are down, the male characteristics they took for granted and feltentitled may not always be there. Kay Hymowitz’s article was simply the start,where shaming men was actually met with resistance, something she and others,most likely didn’t anticipate. Make no mistake, security is something women byand large value very highly, and men where seen as disposable once thegovernment was able to provide or ensure the security they so covet. This isthe deal everybody, just the fact that male support is no longer 100%guaranteed no matter the circumstances any longer ADDED to the fact that menare starting to justify exactly WHY this assurance is no longer in effectinstead of agreeing with the shaming paradigm is disturbing to women. You canbet your boots that some women, a lot of women are questioning the currentparadigm and their apparent ‘supremacy’.

It all comes down to what if as far as women areconcerned.  Essentially, they may askthemselves, what would happen if I was involved in a similar disaster and I hadno male partner for security? This is just the tip of the iceberg my friendsand expect women to really start questioning their attitudes once situationssuch as the Costa Concordia happen more frequently, and also, MUCH closer tohome.

Omnipitron

Pointing to the sun

c/o http://szerlem.blogspot.com/2008_08_01_archive.html

Read this wonderful comment from Boxer on the Spearhead,which I just had to share with you;

“The beauty of our movement is in the clarity and simplicityof it. None of us needs to be some sort of guru, leading kids throughcomplicated mental gymnastics, to see the truth behind our contentions. Evenyoung boys pick up on the obvious fact that most women are screwballs who arenot to be taken seriously. No foul language, crass talk or overt bashing ofwomen is necessary. Quietly pointing out the obvious while acting as aliving example is generally sufficient.” Emphasis mine.

Well-said Boxer, and I steadfastly agree.

I’ve seen this same thing when MLM critics take on theindoctrinated on their own blogs years ago, leaving said kool-aid drinking supporters sputtering, insulting and shaming as their critics drown them inundisputable facts. The truth is very powerful, and whenever the ‘believers’try to state their rationalizations, all one has to do is quickly point to thetruth’ “Sorry, the sun IS yellow” and go right back to their discussion as ifthere was never any rebuttal in the first place. That’s the situation, it’s tooeasy to disprove the foolishness the indoctrinated try to deliver and the lessyou give credit to their position, the more in angers them. In reality, theyare only trying to win by any means necessary, They know full well that their argumentresembles swiss cheese in reality, it isn’t that they CAN’T see the truth northat they are too stupid, it’s that they don’t wish to see thetruth is all.

The truth hurts, don’t hate the player, hate the game.

Omnipitron

Should Be Me vs. Could Be Me

C/O zootsuitstore.com

We’ve already spoken about the two unique networksdistinctive to the genders which in the past where responsible for their properguidance and education in order to facilitate society. Obviously over timethese networks have either changed dramatically or have been utterly usurpedbut that’s nothing new. The main thing that I want to share with you guys issomething that I just realized today. This, sadly, is why us as men have ourhands bound when trying to get through to contemporary women.

If you haven’t been to Laura Grace Robins’ site, it’s wortha gander. The Header for her blog actually relates to our collective situationvery well. I won’t spoil it for you as she has a brilliant explanation for whyshe chose it and it’s well worth the read.

The fact that I wish to share with you is that the networksof the past worked like they did because the older generations had a rapportwith the younger ones, which sadly cannot be superseded by the other gender. Inother words, while some MRA’s wish to reach out to women and show them thelight, trying to assist them from taking a path, which will most likely end upin misery  is sadly little short of foolhardy. We simplydo not have the connection that older women have with their young charges. Holdup, I know what you’re thinking; we can discus the evil effects of Feminismwith the older generation, right? Heck, after they wake up from the numberFeminism has done on their lives, they should be ready and willing to lambastethis foolishness for what it is, right?

Sadly, that too is a no go.

See, what men did in the past was they used theirconsiderable influence and experience to shame/lead young men into ‘manningup’. They showed the young man their own family and told him that he ‘SHOULDbe’ like this. Wife, kids, house, responsibility, yup, there was a time that aman who lived for only himself didn’t necessarily meet with favor from theolder men in his sphere of influence. However, even though Masculinity Inc. hasbeen all but destroyed, you still have the older generation showing the youngerones what he ‘COULD be’ if he isn’t careful in this day and age.

While it may not serve society, (which has rejected men byand large) the paradigm of the older generation educating the younger ones isstill somewhat in play.

However, when it comes to women, we have a much differentsituation. While many women are suffering the ill effects of feminism, insteadof showing the younger ones coming after then that their unfortunatecircumstances could happen to them too and as a result they need to be wary, they use their powerfulrationalization hamsters to diminish the situation and then spin their currentsituation into a ‘positive’ light. In this way, they diminish the negativeeffects of their choices and young women are therefore unaware of the very realill consequences in their paths. If a man ever tries to tell these experiencedwomen the truth of their circumstances, these women then protect theirworldview at all costs, viewing the men as interlopers and would rather deliverfalse information than face the truth.

See, to warn younger women would force these moreexperienced ladies to view their circumstances in too real a light. Theyrationalize for a reason; they are protecting themselves of course, sad buttrue.

This is why attempting to show women the light is usually afool’s errand. If you doubt, all one needs to do is count the number ofsupportive women in the MRA and just how many of them have the guts to take a harshlook at their current situations. It isn’t that many Men Rights Agitators wish women tobe only barefoot and pregnant, it’s just that trying to have your cake and eat ittoo can lead to some very negative consequences. There are VERY few women whowill take up the cause, some being wolves in sheep’s clothing on top of it. I’mnot saying to give up in trying to tell women their possible futures, not atall. Just saying that in my opinion as it appears to me, that the chances ofsuccess in making them realize that the negative issues we speak about that areveritable threats in their lives, and that the issues which face men willeventually hurt them too won’t be anywhere near as good as we would like.

Omnipitron

Self Worth DAMMIT;

Gonna rant here, it will be long, you’ve been warned!!!

Men, it’s time to find your self worth. It has been under attack for the last 40 plus years thanks to our friendly neighborhood feminists, but it’s high time men in the aggregate grew a goddamn backbone. If any single men are reading this blog and born in a Western Country then you are just like me many moons ago. See I had thought that since women no longer need men like they did that I had better learn to be nice to one in order to marry and settle down. We no longer had the upper hand in terms of resources so being just a man no longer seemed to be good enough.

On top of this; if you are between the ages of 20-30 and especially a white male, you have been exposed to boundless propaganda, which has given you a very distinct but erroneous impression of how men and women really operate. You most likely view women as always correct, intuitive and strong willed people who have overcome hardships in their past and thanks to contemporary culture have risen up to claim their birthright. Some of you may even view women as being smarter than men due to their academic success and their prevalence in post secondary education.

It’s time for you to get your balls back, gentlemen! It’s time to start looking at things from a different perspective. I need to bust the sh!t out of a myth for you. Let’s look at a comment Carnivore made on a post Christian J just put up.

“CJ, I hear ya, but even more obvious – take a drive in any city or town – block after block of buildings, roads, bridges, electric lines, water lines, gas lines, telephone, cable TV and on and on it goes – all designed and built and maintained by MEN.Drive in the country – mile after mile of paved roads sometimes through difficult terrain. All designed and built and maintained by MEN.It’s all so easy to take for granted. Oh and BTW, women need men like a fish needs a bicycle. Yeah, right.”

Yes, that’s right, you need to read that part again. Carnivore is right on the money, men build and maintain infrastructure so well that even us MEN take it for granted. By and large we don’t even see what it is that we contribute to society on a regular basis so when the media states that we are useless, we literally bow our heads and agree. We need to get our collective heads out of our @$$ES and realize what the f$ck the deal is!! If you haven’t already, take a gander at the grand daddy of all MRA posts; The Misandry Bubble by The Fifth Horseman. It’s a very long read, but well worth the effort. What you need to realize is this one very simply fact;

Men by and large need VERY little to survive, we can get by on exceptionally little and just on our very wee lonesome, a piddly @$$ job, a crappy set of wheels (or no wheels depending on where you live), and a cramped apartment can do us well once we set up our PS3 that is. My buddy ER rents a single room…that’s it, it’s all he needs. This is what your homework assignment is my good buddies, if you are single; simply look around your digs, where do you live? Count up your assets, where do you work? What sort of expenses do you have, more importantly, how many complications do you have in your life.Compare that to your single male friends and you will find the pattern largely remains true. Now, compare what you have found to that of your married friends or even your father and you will see a very large and distinct difference.

Their job, much larger earnings, their houses or homes at all, much larger and more expensive (my grammar sucks, deal with it). Their vehicles, same thing, their taxes, oh yeah, much more going to Uncle Sam, The Great Canadian Beaver, or Jolly Old England. What I’m trying to say is that infrastructure in virtually ALL of its forms are maintained by the works of married men!! By getting married, men contribute to society and allow it to grow and innovate brand new improvements. Men on their own seldom toil to this level themselves, but with a family to support, they will move mountains.

The crux of the Misandry Bubble is that without a man’s contribution…YOUR contribution, everything crumbles. Everything, get it? As of right now, men not only have no incentive to get off their duffs,but have a very serious reason NOT to get married due to the biased family courts and marriage laws. Make no mistake, the denigration of men spells doom for any society and yes, it has happened before in the past and those societies went the way of the dodo.

Time to recognize your value to society and to yourself,grow a backbone, you have every reason to do so!!

If you look at the all the parts of the negotiation betweenthe sexes, you will see that women where at a distinct disadvantage in terms of leverage. If you are a newbie to the manopshere by chance, then hang around some; you will learn in time, if you’re a veteran, I may shake your tree a little bit. Many MRA’s (Men’s Rights Agitators) maintain that patriarchy was to control female hypergamy.

I highly doubt that.

In my opinion, Patriarchy was used to harness MALES and their tremendous power to create wealth. It was by keeping MEN under control that civilizations have been built and technologies have been forged. Controlling females was simply ONE means of engaging men’s incentive and therefore their works. Men are the ones to be controlled and engaged…NOT WOMEN.Why you ask, once more one needs to look at the negotiation to see the truth. Men can opt out of civilization, thereby creating a huge loss in possible resources; it’s merely a choice to them. Women, have no choice,they have to opt in or they die. Since this is the case, what is to be gained by catering to women since they have no other option? Not only did this engage men to use their excess labor, it also PROTECTED women’s interest as well. Ever wonder why Patriarchal societies accommodate men to extremes other societies consider excessive (not that I agree in some cases)? Simple really, they recognize the great need to have men to continue to invest in society and giving them incentive to carry on is the name of the game!!

Forget this fish and bicycle crap, women can replace us just like us guys can have babies. Believe it, and if you don’t then you best get there!! It’s sad to say that men need to learn the value of masculinity and just what puts steam in our step from the internet, but what’s done is done and we have no other recourse.

That’s why you have some men who have the guts like ER or Brutus NOT to accept a woman’s crap. They realize that THEY are the prize for whatever reason, and the fact that you can make a woman’s dreams come true is a bl@@dy good one in my opinion. My mother said it a long time ago, and she was right, I just didn’t see it at the time. This is a man’s world, it always has been, and always will be. The ONLY reason why sh!t’s hitting the fan now is because of the fact that certain ‘men’ on top are allowing it (and benefiting from it). If you desire to get married, then you need to change your attitude. Do not date women thinking you are somehow lucky to even find one willing to marry you, this will work as well as the Hindenburg’s maiden voyage. No my friends, you need to conduct yourself with your future contribution well in sight. YOU as a man who may marry are going to be the one to make all the dreams come true for some lucky girl…YOU. Why the hell are you lucky to find her pray tell? Just what is so amazing about her that when you are older and more valuable that she will still be a good deal? Why do you have to jump through a trillion hoops to prove yourself to someone who simply believes they merely have to show up?

You need to ask your proposed why she is good enough for you and what it is that she plans to contribute in any relationship with you. Marriage can be a minefield for men and you have every reason to ask. There where checks and balances men used to get and you best make sure you do your due diligence. If you don’t like the answer, BOUNCE. Mark my words, you will…let me say this again…you WILL find another. There are far too many men accepting women far below them and this sh!t needs to stop. You as a man can afford to wait, you don’t like what you see, you don’t need to purchase today. Don’t like what she’s selling, then come back in a day, a year, 5 years, hey, YOU’VE got time. If you’re a man who wishes to get married in this climate, you need to thoroughly screen any woman you deem worthy of your attention. Once you ascertain your value and stop thinking of yourself as lucky to even have a woman, it will be easier to do so once you have a valid reason. 

I was lucky, I didn’t know my worth and found a good woman,most who don’t realize their worth end up much worse than I. I have to state that I’m a stepfather, so you should take my opinion with a grain of salt, but I still believe that too many men don’t recognize their own value and therefore, do not DEMAND as much as they should from the dating market.

At the end of the day, take this information any way you want to. If you want political action, or to become an MRA, maybe learn game it doesn’t matter, whatever floats your boat. All I want you and every man who ever reads this post to understand is this; that even if you never learn game (although I strongly suggest you do), DO NOT EVER ACCEPT A WOMAN’S CRAP BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE. You do have a choice, which is exactly what they DON’T WANT you to think. Why you ask? Due to the fact that if you think that you have no choice, you will ignore all the choices that they don’t have nor see the manipulations they’re attempting with you.

Omnipitron

When Good Men Go ‘Bad’

Earlier today a co-worker, ER, sidled up to me with hisandroid phone in his hand.

“Wanna see the latest one?” He says with a small smirk.

“Sure!” I said with a smile.

He plays with his phone and then shows me the Facebook pageof a very cute woman, I’d peg her as a 7. He seems somewhat enthused about her,as he described her attributes, but not overly so, he didn’t overdo it, thenagain he never does…anymore. See ER always gets this way when he first meets agirl, he has high standards, and as soon as a girl p!sses him off, he bouncesbecause he simply doesn’t have the patience to deal with it. Moreover, he knowsone more thing; he doesn’t HAVE to deal with it.

ER wasn’t always this way, trust me on this one.

See, about 5 years ago when ER first joined the company, hewas a very geeky twenty something who was horrifically beta in every way. Don’tworry, even he would call himself a geek, but he is a lot more confident whenhe says it now. He did posses some alpha traits in that despite his thinstature, he had taken strict martial arts training when younger and is a verymean fighter, but you would have to pull that information out of him like adentist pulls teeth. He doesn’t brag about that sort of thing, which makes youwonder just how dangerous he really is. Well, years ago he caught his seriousgirlfriend cheating on him, literally walked in on it (not physical, yet) andbroke up with her but sadly had gone from the frying pan straight into the firesoon after! His rebound put him through a vicious roller coaster and sadly,during a point in his life where he would have sorely needed some support.

Let’s just say that ER and I have had many talks about hissitch over the years and that dude was tested by some very serious infernos.

Well, to be honest, after he let this three alarm fire hecalled a girlfriend go, something about him had changed drastically. He hadtold me that he simply no longer cared, that he used to live to make womenhappy, and now he honestly didn’t give a flying sh!t any longer, now it wasabout him. All of a sudden, ER went from being in a monogamous relationship andbeing treated like crap, to showing me pictures of various women he was dating,and MANY of them too. Let’s just say that this greater beta has embraced hisinner alpha and it has done wonders for the guy.

Let me tell you this bit of information; just like my former manager I spoke of (who has moved on to greener pastures with a better positionoutside my company) he has never spent ANY time on an MRA site, but he graspsthe contemporary male situation VERY well regardless. We’ve had manydiscussions on the topic of women and relationships and you’d think he’d pouredover virtually every site on the Manosphere with the level of information he has.Don’t get me wrong, when he’s in a committed relationship, he’s faithfulthrough and through, but when he isn’t, you are nothing but a notch on his beltUNLESS you prove otherwise.

Actually, I should restate that; you are nothing but a notchbut he will keep you there with the chance of becoming more UNLESS you provethat you are unworthy. You should see how many have been unworthy; like I saidhe has high standards and realizes that this is HIS game.

The bottom line, the crap that he would have gladly acceptedyears ago, doesn’t even register on his radar now. In truth, his dating lifereads like something out of the Manosphere’s dos and don’ts for women. Womengiving it up too early and begging him to come back the night after, olderwomen chasing after him like an addict for their next fix and it goes on and on.He’s a young man in his early 30’s who has had women indirectly show him just howpowerful he really is in the dating market, and now he is taking advantage ofit. He was the sort of guy who lived to make a woman happy, now he goes throughthem with an attitude similar to a manager at a job interview. He wasn’t like this before ladies; guess who made him thatway?

Consider that the next time you lament over where “The Nice Guys Have Gone.” They’re still there honey, they just changed their approach.

Omnipitron